Paperback: 272 pages
Publisher: Vanderbilt University Press; 1 edition (June 10, 2005)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0826514804
ISBN-13: 978-0826514806
Product Dimensions: 6.9 x 0.7 x 8.9 inches
Shipping Weight: 8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars See all reviews (18 customer reviews)
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This is a fantastic book. It is a collection of anecdotes by caregivers, sometimes spouses, sometimes children, of people suffering from dementia (of various causes: Alzheimer's, Lewy Body, Vascular Dementia, MID, Pick's), and was put together by two caregivers themselves.It's organised chronologically by the various stages of dementia, from early memory loss and confusion, through behavioural changes, physical and emotional support systems, in-home and nursing home care, to death and grieving.Between each of the anecdotes, which are plainly and heartbreakingly told, the editors summarise, analyse, and support. Their motto is repeated throughout - get help early and often. For example, male caregivers are less likely to seek help unless it's somehow tied to education and information gathering. They also find it harder to express themselves or break down, and both are essential components of getting through the tragedy of watching someone you love "die" while still living. Other oft repeated advice: have patience, get enough rest and exercise, keep living your own life, and most importantly, give yourself a break.One of the caregivers said she'd remind herself every time she'd drive to the nursing home to see her husband, that today was going to be the best day she would have with him. Of course, this is because dementia only gets worse, it's a diminishing disease, and the only end is worsening symptoms, and death. And for someone to understand that and take heart in the present is unbelievably strong and inspiring.By the end of the book, it was like having followed a dozen or more families through ever smaller successes and myriad failures, and the strength and empathy that grows from surviving ordeal.
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